B-duhp OM

So, here's the question... Do you feel that a person has the right to snoop on their significant other.... and if you do snoop and find someting, should you confront them.... What are your thoughts???

Sincerly,
B-buhp Outermost

LSR Najwa

Nope, I do not think its right whatsoever. Its invading your privacy. No matter how wonderful of a relationship your in, and you may share everything with your signif. but you still have a right to a little privacy. That also is like him/her saying "I dont trust you whatsoever, so I need to snoop"

cdpgotyourmom

i think you do... in a "good relationship" they should have nothing to hide...

covertwar

No, but if you do happen to stumble upon a compromising situation, that's a different story, eh?

Manny

Yes, If you have "The Feeling". There is nothing to hide! Right??
If you say No is becuase there is hidden things in your own relationships. Girls if they do not trust, they look. Guys do not trust they will & should snoop.
" My Opinion "
It is funny cause people that trust their spouse the most are the people that have experienced some of the most unfaithfull relationships I have ever seen.
On a relationship you need to have a bit of jealousy. It is essential. You need to wonder a bit of what they are doing when you are not there or who are they talking or how are they acting. If you don't you do not love them.
You also should trust but never 100%, Hold part of the bundle of the kite line & perhaps tie it around your waist, If you let go of the full line & hold it by the tip with two fingers you might just loose it to a gust of wind.
Snooping on one anothers **** will help secure what you feel to one another or destroy it all.
Once again Nothing to hide, Right??

spike_x4

I say no, it just leads to stupid problems. if you do, and they find out, then you're busted and they no longer trust you. if you do snoop long enough to find something out, then you didnt trust them in the first place. You shouldnt even be in a relationship without trust, believe me, no trust causes more problems than anything else.

Albgixxer

I voted yes because you always have that what if in the back of your head. Until you really get to know someone you really don't know them, if that makes any sense??? Trust is a big part of it and you can't just flat out throw your trust into someone you don't hardly know. If you do your just waiting to get burned. Once you really know someone and are in tune with them then you can probably back off. Can you tell I've been burned?

E-DUB OM

i say SNOOP like a *****

if she gives you a reason then theres nothing wrong with snoopin
if you snoop and catch her then its better that you know

Manny

I hear you loud & clear.
Well put as well.

Stephers65

I don't believe in it, cause if you don'thave trust then you shouldn't be there to begin with. And if you do snoop chances are you might just find something you wish you hadn't! I won't lie I did it with an ex, and I still regret finding what I found because our relationship took a major downfall. If you do stumble across something things will never be the same cause no matter what you do or how good things are, it's always gonna be in the back of your head haunting you!Just my

LUNA

I think it's ok to snoop only if you know he/she is cheating on you.....
ex: My ex started acting differently and having females over when i was at work sooo one day i went in to his voice mail and heard a message from some female then i decided to came home early and caught him in MY BED with another female.....was it ok to snoop in this situation ......yes
but your snooping just to snoop NO