riding and relationships
06-29-2009, 08:37 PM
#81
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Re: riding and relationships
i'm only 22 and my girls 20 and she wants me to pop the ? and then git married and have kids by the time i'm 26 and shes 24 i dunno that just seems to fast for me i wanna enjoy my life
befor i have kids and we been 2gether for 3 years i still don't know what i wanna do for a career i tell her were not ready yet she has the job as a lbn and half way there to being a nurse and i got no career yet some money saved up for a house but i still would like a job a career befor i move forword! and as for stunting and dirtbike riden everyday i say i'm going riden she just yells at me ya she got school and work all the time and i'm gitting that money from the state for the summer and the time she does have off i spend it with her and she still yells and complains about my riden but dam its not like i'm going out with other girls i just hangen with my buddys riden motor bikes is that so bad? she must be on her summer long period or somthimng
befor i have kids and we been 2gether for 3 years i still don't know what i wanna do for a career i tell her were not ready yet she has the job as a lbn and half way there to being a nurse and i got no career yet some money saved up for a house but i still would like a job a career befor i move forword! and as for stunting and dirtbike riden everyday i say i'm going riden she just yells at me ya she got school and work all the time and i'm gitting that money from the state for the summer and the time she does have off i spend it with her and she still yells and complains about my riden but dam its not like i'm going out with other girls i just hangen with my buddys riden motor bikes is that so bad? she must be on her summer long period or somthimng
06-29-2009, 09:12 PM
#82
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Re: riding and relationships
My girl is my best motivation, she goes and watches me ride and when I do something new she tells me I suck.. Which in return i go try to do something better to inpress her and i still get the "you suck" and so on and so on.
06-29-2009, 09:24 PM
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Re: riding and relationships
06-29-2009, 10:19 PM
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Re: riding and relationships
if the person you're with needs you to change something about yourself, they are probably with the wrong person.
either you change yourself for them, and end up missing yourself, or you don't, and end up missing them. one way or another as soon as someone has to change, everything is going to change. you can't give up something you love for someone and not resent them for asking too much of you. but if you don't give it up, they'll resent you.
efforts to change someone else are bad signs of controlling behavior.
It's selfish to ask or demand a person give up something they are passionate about.
06-29-2009, 10:31 PM
#86
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Re: riding and relationships
Im in the same boat ellis. looks like there may be a move in my near future. she loved them at first but now since we had a kid together she has changed so much. she hates my bikes and says it consumes my life.she hates the stunt lifestyle now and wants nothing to do with it.
i cant win either bro.
i cant win either bro.
lol... after my baby everthing went from great let me take pics to... all you do is ride, you dont care about me ,you just ride to bang the girls, once this house is done, i`ll be right back in it 110%% she`ll prolly leave.... hahahahaha
06-29-2009, 10:31 PM
#87
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Re: riding and relationships
"all you care about is that motorcycle" this line from my husband, and the industry being a sausage fest were part of the end of my marriage.
if the person you're with needs you to change something about yourself, they are probably with the wrong person.
either you change yourself for them, and end up missing yourself, or you don't, and end up missing them. one way or another as soon as someone has to change, everything is going to change. you can't give up something you love for someone and not resent them for asking too much of you. but if you don't give it up, they'll resent you.
efforts to change someone else are bad signs of controlling behavior.
It's selfish to ask or demand a person give up something they are passionate about.
if the person you're with needs you to change something about yourself, they are probably with the wrong person.
either you change yourself for them, and end up missing yourself, or you don't, and end up missing them. one way or another as soon as someone has to change, everything is going to change. you can't give up something you love for someone and not resent them for asking too much of you. but if you don't give it up, they'll resent you.
efforts to change someone else are bad signs of controlling behavior.
It's selfish to ask or demand a person give up something they are passionate about.
I had to say that because i guess i am being a hater today so i cant just hate on a few people i have to hate everyone.
06-29-2009, 10:35 PM
#88
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06-29-2009, 10:35 PM
#89
street killa
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06-29-2009, 10:41 PM
#90
**** YOU ALL!
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Re: riding and relationships
I love riding my bike, I love watching my guy at the spot......WISH HE WOULD GO MORE. I actually tell him to go ride! It's a package deal. No different than a man watching his sports. 
My guy sometimes tells me he is jealous of me because I get to ride more than he does.
My guy sometimes tells me he is jealous of me because I get to ride more than he does.
06-29-2009, 11:06 PM
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06-30-2009, 12:24 AM
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Re: riding and relationships
I can barely hear anything lately. it sucks. I never planned on getting this old.
what's all the hate for? is it your birthday or something?
06-30-2009, 02:35 AM
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Re: riding and relationships
06-30-2009, 02:54 AM
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Re: riding and relationships
Relationships are for suckers!!! Lol, jk
When I was with an ex I used 2 love going to the spot and watch him ride. U either support what ur significant other does or u find someone else with ur same interests, u never try 2 change them or make them give up something they love. That's just lame and screams insecurity (which is hella unattractive). Besides, if u don't wanna be at the spot with ur man then go 2 the mall or something, but don't expect him 2 come with u over riding with his boys!
Oh and guys, this sport is mostly populated by men, so if u meet a woman that rides, don't sit on front street in the beginning then later on get pissed off cause ur girl rides with a bunch of guys.
When I was with an ex I used 2 love going to the spot and watch him ride. U either support what ur significant other does or u find someone else with ur same interests, u never try 2 change them or make them give up something they love. That's just lame and screams insecurity (which is hella unattractive). Besides, if u don't wanna be at the spot with ur man then go 2 the mall or something, but don't expect him 2 come with u over riding with his boys!
Oh and guys, this sport is mostly populated by men, so if u meet a woman that rides, don't sit on front street in the beginning then later on get pissed off cause ur girl rides with a bunch of guys.
06-30-2009, 03:15 AM
#98
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Re: riding and relationships
Relationships are for suckers!!! Lol, jk
When I was with an ex I used 2 love going to the spot and watch him ride. U either support what ur significant other does or u find someone else with ur same interests, u never try 2 change them or make them give up something they love. That's just lame and screams insecurity (which is hella unattractive). Besides, if u don't wanna be at the spot with ur man then go 2 the mall or something, but don't expect him 2 come with u over riding with his boys!
Oh and guys, this sport is mostly populated by men, so if u meet a woman that rides, don't sit on front street in the beginning then later on get pissed off cause ur girl rides with a bunch of guys.
When I was with an ex I used 2 love going to the spot and watch him ride. U either support what ur significant other does or u find someone else with ur same interests, u never try 2 change them or make them give up something they love. That's just lame and screams insecurity (which is hella unattractive). Besides, if u don't wanna be at the spot with ur man then go 2 the mall or something, but don't expect him 2 come with u over riding with his boys!
Oh and guys, this sport is mostly populated by men, so if u meet a woman that rides, don't sit on front street in the beginning then later on get pissed off cause ur girl rides with a bunch of guys.
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